You know what they say about making plans... and God laughing. The joke is definitely on us this time.
November 10th, a week before Matt took off to start the painting prep, and a month before the weaning "deadline" I took a pregnancy test. Sure it would say "not pregnant"... I mean who gets pregnant that easily?
Apparently me.
| Taken 11/10/09 |
We decided to wait until the end of the first trimester to tell anyone, just to be on the safe side. I told Matt he was on his own with the painting. I was looking forward to helping during naptimes at least, but I figured paint fumes probably aren't the best while a heart and lungs are developing.
I felt pretty normal until around Thanksgiving then I threw up that last piece of pumpkin pie all over myself on the 2 hour drive home. It was terrible. I was sick.
Let me qualify "sick" (I know some people have it much worse). With Charlotte some smells would make me nauseous and riding in the car. I threw up twice the whole pregnancy and gagged once in a while. This time I started to throw up about every other day and gag after every meal, during dirty diaper changes, and almost every time I opened the refrigerator (even when it has absolutely no gross food in it). I started calling the baby "twins" as a joke because I felt twice as sick. I would say things like, "The twins want Panda Express for dinner. The twins are tired. Etc."
Then on December 15th I went in for my first doctor appointment at 9 weeks. Matt has been super busy at work so he said he would come to the first ultrasound appointment since they didn't do an ultrasound at the first one with Charlotte. The doctor said I might be extra sick because it is a different gender, or it could just be random. Then she said they were going to do an ultrasound.
I knew as soon as I looked at the screen.
The doctor turned to me and asked, "What do you see?"
"That looks like two."
"You get an A+ my teacher friend, you're having twins! That would explain why you've been extra sick!"
Yep. We're having TWINS!!!
The doctor couldn't believe how calm I was, I just kept saying, "Goodness, gracious." People usually scream for twins. Part of me was in shock, but part of me wasn't that surprised. The hardest part was that Matt wasn't there. I thought about trying to come up with some cute way to tell him but I was too excited/anxious to wait much longer. I called him up and told him to come home early. Luckily he got home the same time I did because it was so hard not to tell him on the phone. I really wanted to see his face when he found out.
He had no idea why I told him to come home, but he came. I told him to ask me about my doctor's appointment. Then I told him they did an ultra sound and showed him the picture. I'm glad she gave me a picture because he probably wouldn't have believed me otherwise. He looked so happy and said, "Oh man! It really is twins!"
Once we found out it was twins it was too hard to keep it a secret so we called up our families. I wanted to stop there until I was further along but Matt was too excited to wait. He told his friend from work that night, then all the Scout leaders and people at work the next day, then everyone on face book... and both of our families were spreading the news like wildfire. I figured I had better tell some people before there was no one left to tell. It makes me nervous to tell this early- I really hope everything will be okay.
Sorry all the pictures are so bad. I don't have a scanner so they are a picture of a picture.
They both have their own amniotic sac and I saw both of their little heart beats which made me feel a little better- they can't tell if they are identical or fraternal yet. I'll do another post on all the things running through my head about this very life-changing news but this post is probably enough to take in at once. The full term due date is July 19th but twins are usually early so we might have June babies.
When we had the ultrasound where we found out Charlotte was a girl I remember telling Matt I really felt like we would have twin boys next. I don't know why. I wouldn't call it "wishing" for twins because I know it will be a ton of work but I just had this feeling we would have twins after Charlotte. I'm going to guess boys just because I had that feeling, but I really would be happy with any combination.
Oh my goodness! TWINS! Congrats guys!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Erin! I could tell you looked great on saturday, with the glow just a pregnant woman has!
ReplyDeleteLet me know if you need anything!
It is exciting new and being a twin I think it is great. You have a special relationship with your twin. Hope everything goes great for you.
ReplyDeleteOh. my. goodness!!! Congratulations, first and foremost. Secondly, get your rest now haha! They thought I was having twins too...I don't know what I would've done! I think it's a sign that you are so good with one, that it's time for two at once. I totally understand the state of shock too...I'm almost 22 weeks and STILL in shock. If you need ANYTHING at all, let me know! I have preggie pop sucker things, if you need them. I've been looking for someone who may need them.
ReplyDeleteThis is so crazy and so exciting at the same time! Congratulations!!! I'm so concerned for you though. Not for the after pregnancy part, because you are an awesome mom, but the pregnancy part. How are you going to fit two babies in you?!!! Just kidding! Love you all!
ReplyDeleteAll I can say it wow. Or maybe I should say "Wow, wow." Let me know when you are up for advice. I have a good friend who's twins are one on the 29th.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!!! That is so crazy and awesome at the same time. You are going to have so much fun!
ReplyDeleteMy dad made sure I was sitting down whe he told me the news. Congratulations! THis will be an adventure for sure! Now you have someone that will fit your "twin" room". How perfect is that. Lets just hope this labor and delivery is as easy as the last one!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Hope you are feeling better soon.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!!! Thanks for sharing the ultrasound pictures. I think we'll all be busy next summer. Take Care. Love to ALL. Grandma
ReplyDeletei get to be the first post! i have NOT heard yet, so thank you for blogging it! congrats!! so crazy huh? you guys will do great with 3 little ones under 2. good luck:)
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, I love the Christmas card!
ReplyDeleteSecond of all, CONGRATULATIONS!!! You're such a good momma that I have no doubt you'll be able to handle 3 of them! Plus a very supportive daddy! Well, I won't overdose you with questions just yet. I'll wait until I see more posts. I'm excited to hear about updates!! Many blessings to you & your family. Praying that you have an easy (if there is such a thing), & heathly pregnancy & delivery.
Oh heavens. Oooooooh heavens.
ReplyDeleteWell, first off, CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I'm so excited for you. I mean, really, really, really excited for you. TWINS?! I can't believe it. That is gonna be crazy. Going from one to three in one fell swoop - man. I don't know what else to say but MAN. I always wanted twins. I hoped Enoch was, but I ended up liking him anyway. ;) I don't know that I've ever seen an ultrasound picture of twins. That is just about the cutest thing I've ever seen! Do twins run in either family, or is this a fluke??
Erin, I cannot even begin to say how excited I am for you! Heavenly Father REALLY knows what he is doing - You and Matt are such incredible parents. I hope you feel better sickness-wise soon - ikkkk. The kids were just fasinated when I told them Charlotte's mom had TWO babies in her tummy.
ReplyDeleteThat's crazy! Congratulations! Are twins common in your family?
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, Erin, Matt, and big sister-to-be Charlotte! I can't wait hear all about round 2!
ReplyDeleteYEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm soo excited for you! A little jealous, and yet really not since I'm still nervous of just having two. Though if anyone could handle it it's you. And, we may have our babies at the same time. We really have to start having more playdates! Congrats Erin. I'm so happy for you.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry about the sick thing- i was so sick too! And I bawled when they told me it was twins cuz i knew i would be sick the whole pregnancy! Congrats! That is so funny that you were already calling it twins- guess sometimes you just know! I remember my first appt they check the heartbeat (one) and then we called Denise and she asked if they check for twins- guess she kind of knew too! We didn't have an ultrasound until 15 weeks.
ReplyDeleteCongrats again!
Hooray! Congrats! What an adventure! It's going to be so crazy if it IS twin boys-
ReplyDeleteWe're so happy for you- and Charlotte! What fun!
Merry Christmas!
Oh my goodness! What a shock and so exciting. Congrats
ReplyDeleteWell, I guess I'm behind on this blogging! I think my heart attack is getting better now after finding out. Don't worry Erin we are already talking about a vacation end of May/early June so we can help you out. Charlotte can be my part time daughter number #1.
ReplyDeleteCongrats deary! What a surprise! I was up at 3:00am feeding my little Ada when I read this post. I have to admit...I couldn't do it! I can barely stay awake for one kiddo! I'm so happy for you guys though. Please let me know if I can do anything to help!
ReplyDeleteOK - so I've watched you blog on and off for a while (since Charlotte was born, because Matt's mom sent out an email with it attatched), and I've never said anything, but this is pretty fun, exciting, crazy news. I'm Matt's 2nd cousin and also expecting twins - with the same due date! So crazy. I would love to chat more with you and it has been fun watching you two become parents!
ReplyDeleteHope this isn't creepy stalker behavior, but I just couldn't resist saying "Hi" :).
Sharla (whitmer) Williams
I can't even imagine! So exciting!!
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