Friday, April 3, 2009

Cloth Diapers... the good, the bad and the poopy*

We're all on the mend now and we've escaped from the house a few times so I'm starting to feel normal again! Sorry for the complaining post before!
Week 1 of the Cloth Diaper Experiment
**If you could care less about cloth vs. disposable diapers (pretty much everybody) feel free to skip this post. I've tried to keep it as "clean" as possible considering the topic.
Every February was science project time at our K-8 grade school growing up... It was mom's least favorite time of year. Imagine having 3 or 4 kids needing a science project at the same time every year! I usually placed pretty well taking 2nd and 3rd place in the school different years . Not as good as some of my siblings...Jesse won 1st place almost every year starting in 3rd grade. With a fish biologist (or farmer as he calls himself) dad and a school teacher mom (plus there are 6 of us) we had a monopoly on the science fair. I guess part of me still likes to do science experiments. Mine is just a little late this year...

Question:
After a 21 day trial period will I decide that I want to switch to cloth diapers?
Hypothesis:

I really have no idea how this will end up. (I know. Bad hypothesis)
Background on my Research:

-Hardly anyone is lukewarm on the cloth diaper topic.
-Until two weeks ago I had never changed a cloth diaper.
-I didn't even think about using cloth before I had Charlotte. I mean disposables are the greatest invention of the last century right? Better than the printing press or microwaves or TV.
-Since becoming a mom I've noticed there are a lot of moms who use cloth diapers. So maybe this is a grown-up case of "I want one too!"

It might just be the breastfeeding mom's group I go to. (In the U.S. 90% of people use disposables. I'm just surprised it's not more!) Many of the moms at this group fall very squarely into the attachment parenting-all natur-al birthing-carry baby in a sling until 35 pounds-nurse until at least age 2 category. I love going to the group and I agree with a lot of things they talk about but I realize that you have to parent the way that works for you. So I listen to the topics each week and use what I think will work for me and nod politely during the rest.

One week the topic was cloth diapering. A lady who sells them came and showed all the kinds, how to use them, the money they save you, and how you can single-handidly save the planet by using them. I was intrigued but not sold. I've been ruminating on it but I wasn't willing to make the investment (code for forking out a big chunk of money) unless I knew I liked it and could handle it.

Materials (aka how I got myself into this):
-My friend Jennifer told me http://www.jilliansdrawers.com/ lets you try 7 different kinds of NEW cloth diapers for 21 days. This way I could see which kind I like, or if I like them at all, for $10 plus shipping. What have I got to lose? I like a challenge, and trying new things. Now I can see what all the fuss is about and if I want to join in on the fuss. I'm curious enough to see how it works and you can't knock it until you try it. So here it goes 21 days to experiment with cloth diapers.

Pre-experiment Opinions
That's Good
No, That's Bad

(stolen from the title of a childhood book of my sister's)

Cost
If Charlotte potty-trains at roughly 2.5 I could save $500-$1000 using cloth. Even if I get the fancy-smancy pants cloth diapers.The diaper website estimates you will spend $2,457 on disposables for one kid. But I usually buy generic. In bulk. With a coupon. So I wanted to see if I will actually save money. I figure when Charlotte is done with diapers I will have used in the neighborhood of 5,000 diapers spending about $1,500 including wipes. Whoa! This diaper website estimates 7,500 diapers. Maybe I don't change her enough or thinking potty training is around 2.5 is delusional?
That's Good
-No amount of money might make getting that close and personal with bowel movements worth it. Matt is more than willing to pay any amount of money to keep Charlotte's messes manageable.
That's Bad
-They look so much easier to use than you think. The fancy ones literally Velcro or snap on even easier than a disposable. They now have inserts that you can flush and sprayers that attach to your toilet and when they're just nursing you don't have to do either. The fancy fleece keeps the moisture away from their skin so they don't get diaper rash like they used to.
That's Good
-The pre-fold type look a whole lot like the nightmare your mother talks about. No safety pins, cuter covers, but basically the same thing. They do still feel the wetness sooner which does mean more diaper changes but I've also heard earlier potty training...
That's Bad

They are so soft and cute and have names like
Fuzzi Bunz
Happy Heiny
Bum Genius.


Cute little diaper model

Now don't you want your little fuzzy buns to be a bum genius and have a happy heiny? Someone needs to give their marketing department a big pat on the back for the cute names. I know not a very big reason but still. They come in colors like blossom and have flower covers, are made of everything from fleece to organic cotton.
That's Good
Will the cuteness make cleaning them any less disgusting?
That's Bad

I love the idea of never buying diapers again and laundry is not a chore I mind too much.
That's Good
Laundry might become a big chore if I have to wash diapers all the time.
That's Bad

Some sources say cloth diapers are more environmentally friendly even taking into account electricity and water (estimated at $608 for the length a kid is in diapers). Apparently you're technically supposed to flush diaper contents in the toilet. It's technically not legal to put human waste in a garbage can to pollute our water and food sources and fill up our landfills with billions of disposable diapers every year that take forever to disintegrate. I have to say that I personally have never emptied a disposable diaper before throwing it away.

Other sources disagree...If you read disposable diaper information it says that water contamination really happens most often in 3rd world countries where the landfills aren't set up as well as ours. It's all about who's writing it so who knows?

That's Good

Matt says he could care less about the environmental factor. Let's just say Matt doesn't "GO GREEN". We pay our taxes we deserve our landfill space right? Everyone else is throwing away dirty diapers why not us? I'll admit that while I cringe when I think of piles of stinking diapers in landfills this is not the biggest factor for me.

That's Bad

I could use them on more than one kid saving even more money, they come in 1 size expandable that last from 8-35 pounds so you really can just buy once and use until they potty train. That's Good

So join me on this journey as I see if the GOOD or the BAD conquer.

*I credit my sister's sister-in-law Randi's blog for the phrase

17 comments:

  1. You are brave!! My mom only ever used cloth (big old pins and all) so I grew up changing those. I was 10 when my youngest brother was born and definitely did my fair share of diaper changing. I must say I'm glad they don't use the pins any more. I poked myself all the time. Technically, you not only dump, but scrub out poopy cloth diapers in the toilet. So you pretty much put your hands in the toilet water. It didn't bother me when I did it nearly as much as it does now! (They say that way is much more sanitary than scrubbing out the poop in the sink, though. And I must agree.)

    Anyway, I have never changed my kids diapers as much as these professional companies estimate. Although I hear that with cloth you change a lot more often because they get wet and sit on the babies skin, while disposable have that stuff that wicks away moisture. But I don't really know, so you'll have to be the judge.

    By the way, this may burst some of your bubble, but a huge study just came out (like this year) that compared the 'greeness' of disposable vs. cloth. The people that paid for the study were actually the cloth/environmental people who wanted proof that they were better. The results shocked everyone all around: they found that both cloth and disposable diapers were exactly equal in their 'greeness'. FOR REAL. And it was a HUGE, peer reviewed, big-name research lab who did it. I can't remember all the reasons, but when they explained it, it made sense.

    That said, I have often dabbled in the cloth diaper idea simply because it DEFINITELY saves money!! So I think you're awesome to try it. I really want to know what you end up deciding. You may inspire me to try them! :)

    ps. I had a friend who did cloth with a company - they picked up all her dirty diapers each week, and exchanged them for a whole set of clean ones. So she didn't have to do any of the cleaning stuff. Although that probably really cut the savings.

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  2. Okay, just kidding. The study was done in 2005. But I only heard about it this year. :) Here is a link to the ABC article about it:

    http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/Story?id=789465&page=1

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  3. Good luck! Charlotte looks so great in them!

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  4. Thanks for the article Janae! It sounds like they can't decide which are best either. The green debate depends on the source. Some say disposables are better some say cloth... That's not a huge issue for me but for most people who use cloth it is. The cost is a big plus. It's interesting what they say about the chemicals in disposables maybe affecting their reproductive organs. When I say "dump" them in the toilet I'm refering to the insert that you put on the cloth diaper that you can just dump in the toilet and flush so there is no dunking. Cool huh! They do feel how wet they are sooner but not as bad as the old style diapers. When Charlotte wears the fleece ones at night her bum feels totally dry in the morning. NO diaper rash so far! The jury is still out though!

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  5. You are a brave woman! I remember my mom rinsing them in the toilet, and I'll never forget the yellow diaper pail with the bleach tablet in the bottom--that thing smelled so bad! And the pins and rubber pants! Hard memories to get past. But it sounds like they are much better now. And if you factor in reusing them for all your kids. . . you probably CAN save a ton of money. But I don't know--having to haul around dirty diapers when you're out so you can take them home to wash them? And at this age, the poop isn't so bad. But let me tell you, when they're on table food. . .ugggghhh. You don't want to have to get too close to that stuff. :)

    I'll be interested to find out what you decide!

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  6. I can't believe I read that whole post...

    As you know, I own 5 all-in-one cloth diapers, and I'm too lazy to use them!

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  7. Good luck with your experiment. I hope everything goes well.

    I hope I never have to wash out another pair of poopy panites again. Don't know if I could handle cloth diapers, but it would be nice to save the money!

    The few cloth diapers that we have, the girls now use in their dress-up clothes as random things.

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  8. Well I have read that study and it is true that in the end cloth diapers are really any more "green" (unless you don't use your dryer for them and hang them on a line- then you are not using electricity and it is VERY much more green) I LOVE the idea of saving money...in fact with our next one (which we are not growing at this time) I might try it because I have spent an obscene amount of money in the last 3 1/2 years on diapers.
    Can't wait for the end of this experiment...

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  9. Yeah! I'm so happy you didn't need my help to do this science project. I love how some (many) of my children like to analyze everything. Good Luck!! Love Mom

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  10. Ooo I'm so excited to see how this turns out! I think you should post regular updates on your data :)

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  11. Good luck on your experiment! I will like to see how things go. We've contemplated the idea (when the baby gets here) but we are unsure. So your experiment will be helpful to me! Have fuN!

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  12. I used to change Erin's cloth diapers

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  13. Nice Jesse, real nice! What a good big brother... you were like 4 somehow I doubt it.

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  14. I was cleaning out the sewing room and found a whole box of cloth diapers. Brand new. Let me know if you'd like some of them.
    Good luck with the project:)

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  15. Holy cow, lots of comments! ;) I just wanted to say that I commented back to your question ... on my blog ... just now ... but now I'm worrying that you didn't subscribe and won't check and won't realize. So this is your reminder! :)

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  16. I just wanted to let you know that I have no comment about the cloth vs. disposable diapers. Rightfully so, since I don't have kids, but I do know that if my sister's used them, I would definitely refrain from offering to change their cloth messy diapers. I couldn't do that. But then again, I'm not constantly exposed to baby diapers and stuff that grosses me out. Oh, back to the point... I love your pictures of Charlotte. She's such a cutie!

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