In birth order... Abby was the only girl when we took the pictures. There are 3 more baby girls not pictured though. Most of these babies were almost double the twins' weight at birth! I hope they catch up before they become the church nursery runts!
There were 9- yes 9! babies born in our ward at church from May to September! When Charlotte was born there were hardly any babies at church or cousins very close in age. I was grateful to have a mom's group to join so Charlotte could have some friends her age. The twins are so lucky to have so many!
About a month ago I invited all the mom's of the baby bumper crop over for lunch and a baby play date. I'm sure they thought I was crazy for throwing something with tiny twins, but that just shows how much I like to socialize- and how lonely I'm getting at home all the time. It was a little crazy- but also really fun and exactly what I needed.
Charlotte had a rough time sharing her toys and playing outside nicely with the other toddler siblings. She had to get 2 time-outs for screaming while everyone was here. Which is always embarrassing, but I'm trying really hard to be consistent with her. Sometimes I feel like everyone must think I am the worst mom when Charlotte acts like that. She honestly isn't nearly that hard most of the time, but when she gets put in a new situation she usually doesn't respond well. She gets upset so easily and can't control her emotions yet. It's rough being 2- when mom expects you to share and play nice! I'll just keep doing the best I can with her and hope it works eventually. I have seen some improvements with the screaming- but we still have our bad days. She does so much better with older kids- because they know how to share- even if she doesn't! I'll welcome any advice or commiserations from the more experienced parents out there...
Despite the 2-year-old tantrums it was a lovely get-together and I hope we can do it again often as these kiddos grow up!
Cute pictures of the babies. Charlotte is only 2 and don't worry what others think because they have either gone through the temper tantrums or they will soon! We just are impressed with all you do, You are a "Super Mom" and an example to others.
ReplyDeleteSounds like an enjoyable time for all. It's nice to have so many young couples in your ward.
ReplyDeleteyou don't need to worry about others thinking you are a bad mom. People understand that she is two. That is so fun that the twins will have so many friends! There were no babies when Ben was born, but one moved in later. I am the only one now with a baby Tayrien's age too. Hopefully that changes too! Your a good mommy!
ReplyDeleteBoy do I hear you with the whole screaming/tantrums. Brooklee is doing the same thing, and I understand what you mean with putting her in time out to be consistent. I just started it with Brooklee and I am hoping it will help. We'll see!
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing! And I am sure the other mothers were so glad you invited them over for a play date. Great job!
I'm pretty sure that almost every mother on the planet has had to deal with the tantrums phase that comes with being a 2 year old! If they haven't, they are lucky and will probably experience it sooner or later. It's so frustrating. But it will end soon. Most of the moms I know had their kids act up from anywhere between 18 months to about 30 months. When they get closer to three the tantrums stop and they can understand a bit more about what we are saying and why they should behave. It gets easier, I promise!
ReplyDeleteThanks for having us all over--it was a lot of fun! I can so empathize. Brielle screams a lot too. I feel like I spend my days saying, "stop screaming and tell me what you want so I can help you!" Two is a frustrating age all the way around. But I think Charlotte is great--she's no worse and certainly better than a lot of two year-olds. You are an amazing mom! You're so right about consistency. I've learned it makes a huge difference. It's hard when you have other kids who need you, though, to stop and discipline the way you should every time.
ReplyDeleteI am sure everyone thinks you are a great mom. I think that the only time kids understand sharing is when they want someone to share with them! I'm not sure that ever changes!
ReplyDeleteOk - I have been having serious "Arizona Ward" withdrawls and this post nearly made me cry. I can't believe all the babies are here already!
ReplyDeleteTell everyone I said hello and think of you lots.
We all had a wonderful time. Thanks for inviting us. I felt bad for Charlotte because everyone was playing with her toys and Carson kept shutting the door that she wanted left open. Who wouldn't get a little annoyed?
ReplyDeleteYou are an amazing mom and woman. Seriously, you made us all lunch and you are the one with twins! Thank you so much!